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"A family based in North London seeks an extraordinary and skilled educator to assist their youngest child on his early path to becoming an English gentleman."

When reading this listing, you might easily skip the term "beginning" as just a turn of phrase.

Yet, it might be the most significant aspect of this unusual position posting, as it seeks to find a mentor for a infant.

Hundreds of applications have now been received since the unnamed family published their search for the £180k-a-year tutor, who needs to be "an exceptional individual".

In recent few weeks, the listing has received notice in the news, with several questioning why?

Forward-Thinking Method

A tutoring expert, CEO and founder of an education consultancy, which is helping the family in their quest, said that in spite of first doubt, he considered the concept "far sighted", and "progressive".

When he met the family, he said they understood the atypical character of their requirement, and how early in age their son is.

But, they stated that they "didn't want to wait any longer" to hire a tutor, as they had held off until their older child was five, and by that stage "cultural conditioning had by then taken hold".

What precisely did the family indicate by "cultural bias"?

It's "everything", Adam responded. "The way you eat, the way you speak".

He explained the firstborn had absorbed "very nuanced, non-verbal cues" from the family, and had adopted their cultural ways. The family told the consultant they did not want this pattern to happen again with their new baby.

The plan: To bring in a British tutor, who should speak with standard English accent, to shape the baby from the very start.

Natural Absorption

"A great deal of the learning at the start here is kind of acquired indirectly," stated the CEO.

It's via this osmosis that the family are aiming the child will acquire the British traits they aim to impart.

He noted the tutor needed to be an individual who studied at "the appropriate educational institutions – similar types of schools as the family hope to send their son to".

"The instructor must be the appropriate candidate, they'll be carrying out things they don't even know they're doing, effortlessly," he added.

Money No Object

The family informed him the successful candidate should preferably also have understanding of or passion in horse riding, skiing, artistic pursuits and instrumental training so as to shape the child in a wide range of passions.

Additionally though, he explained the family wanted the tutor to register the child on a variety of classes so the child would be "pony-riding and starting an instrument by the time they are around three years old".

In the family's minds, guiding their son develop into a "UK sophisticate" will lead to achievement and provide access.

"Taking into account the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's certainly a status symbol," he comments.

Yet, despite all this instruction in "Britishness", might the child pick up what is termed cultural bias from the multicultural family he lives with anyway?

"Certainly", replied the CEO. "They realize this could fail, but they've merely embraced the perspective of, 'let's give it a go and we should start as soon as we can', because the expense of it is not relevant," he explained.

Overly Optimistic

Several in the tutoring industry who have these concerns.

An education leader, CEO and founder of an educational organization, who also offer individual instructors, wrote that "the process of embracing two identities, or in fact, becoming oneself, is something that must be experienced personally, not designed."

Peter explained that he had relocated from China to the Britain at the period of 7 years old, and had been raised experiencing and practicing both cultures. He went on to learn at Cambridge University.

"The notion that an individual can function as a living vessel of English culture, an individual who can possibly transfer the characteristics of a UK sophisticate upon a one-year-old child, strikes me as idealistic and impractical," he wrote.

"In my experience, employing a distinctly UK tutor from early childhood will will not necessarily create the goal they hope for.

"I wasn't provided with such a tutor, and yet I have been fortunate enough to live several of the situations they aspire for their son."

He added: "The truth is, personal identity can not be dictated from the external environment; it must be selected, and it must come from within."

Acquiring Englishness

Certainly, English culture is something Adam hopes can be instructed – and commercialized.

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